You need to revive the zeal of God in your life. It is not enough just to be a Christian. You need to be zealous for God. Stop trying to make things work. Yield to the Holy Spirit. Let Him take charge of your prayer life.
I have intimacy with God; worshiping and serving Him; being more physically fit; making lots of money doing work that I love; being engaged in my natural environment; traveling the world to experience its richness; having satisfying interpersonal relationships; reading and writing; publishing books; sharing a lifetime of knowledge with a vast international audience; and encouraging and helping other people achieve their purpose in life.