God bless my sister. One of the best one-liners she came up with was this: “I’m up here”. She used it mostly in her teenage angst years, but it’s incredible. Whenever mom was giving us the LOOK. The LOOK was when for a few split seconds, mom looks at you like you’re just a fat piece of shit. She may or may not have known that she was doing it, but anyone with feelings is hurt by it. It sucks. But my sister, Macy, said “I’m up here” when mom LOOKED at us.