New Year… 2017…. Trials and tribulations

Im always planning on writing entries but then something either comes up and I get side tracked…

since son in law and oldest daughter moved out of my living room and into their own place.. it has been peaceful.. I stay busy with the three oldest kids every weekend without fail.. and take them to events and keep them overnights on the weekends…

I feel like I am the hellraiser grandmother.. lol.. im always getting in trouble so to speak because I either took them too far somewhere  without asking permission… yeah go figure… blahh blahh blahh  technically my son in law and daughter have not been awarded custody back to their seven kids yet.. so therefore.. I find it hard to respect their parenting to a certain degree  of them granting permission on where I take them and what we do… after all I have been cleared by children and family services to have supervision  over them as well…

eyeroll…

and news flash..   I discovered over Christmas  that the weight that oldest daughter has been putting on was due  .. or is due  in March.. yup  baby #8….

and she wanted to make a comment about my youngest who had an abortion recently.. by calling youngest daughter a murderer….   really?  

but oldest daughter  is ok with bringing an eight baby into the world  and she doesn’t even have full custody on the seven she has?   and she wants to call names?

mother of the year award is not what she is going to be given.. booboo

so… my youngest daughter  came to stay with me for a while.. left her abusive boyfriend.. ( mentally abusive) im so glad.. the first couple of days she was here I took her over to see the others daughters kids at the grandmothers house.. cause she hasn’t seen them in ages… and my oldest daughter texted me shortly after to tell me not to bring her there anymore.. and that she didn’t want any problems  and to keep her sister away from whats  hers..   what?  so I responded  with  OMG..   and  she responded back  with  what? 

I wasn’t going to keep it going.. I just didn’t respond after that.. she has always been jealous of her youngest sister .. and  youngest daughter  has always felt   I have helped oldest daughter  out more  than her.. so they have a riff between them.. but  youngest  doesn’t hold onto grudges.. and  oldest  does..

and  ever since  oldest  jumped into her new  place of living.. I see her attitude  towards me  is back to being  defensive..  and  major attitude….  why?  because  she doesn’t need me right this moment  so  she is feeling her balls  right now……

lied to me about the new pregnancy  right to my face  straight faced.. and I had asked her in November  if she was..  claimed  nope… no way….

and  wellahhhhh   here I clearly see the belly is not a weight issue  it looks like all the other pregnancies….  and yes  it  has been finally admitted…

I know the other grandmother is not opening her door to any more responsibility… so im not sure which way this will go ….

but the way oldest daughter is acting.. im ok  with keeping my distance  from now on… shes  ungrateful.. unappreciative… and  expects  entitlement… booboo  you are  32  years old.. not  getting any younger.. time for  a grow up plan by now.. I am not going to be her door mat anymore,..

on a brighter note.. my youngest daughter has come to stay with me.. and in the three days  she has been in town  she already  started a new job  last night… its  night times.. and hopefully she will be ok and stress free to where her seizures  don’t affect her 

like I said  before my daughters  are like night and day.. my youngest has always been a go getter  and self motivator in spite of her disability  she just doesn’t let it stop her or get her down…

2017   new  year .. I will be doing things  differently  this year… I will not be keeping my mouth closed… I will not feed into pointless drama… and I will not be taken advantage of…

I have closed some doors in my life.. and I intend to keep them that way…

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