What is a friend?
A friend is someone who you think your life would be different if they didn’t exist. A friend is someone who never leaves you out, you are always included when you are with them. A friend is there for you no matter what.
So I’ve been rethinking my friendships for the last few days. I have recently had a friend spread rumors about me and talk a bunch of crap on me. I’ve had one friend that’s been there for me but i’m starting to rethink the friendship.
I’ve shared mostly every secret I have with this one friend and she has never judged me for my actions or mistakes. I’ve had a crush on a guy since my freshman year. She always told me how the guy has always been messaging her trying to have sex with her. Out of concern I would ask if she was going to have sex with him, her answer was always “No I wouldn’t do that to you.”
Well just last Thursday she was supposed to come home (She is my room mate). She didn’t have a ride home but she was hanging out with him and some friends. I left her a bunch of messages saying that if she met me at school she could ride home with me. She got my first message and then shut off her phone. Next thing I know she messages me and tells me she was going out to her dads house. The next day at school a group of boys are talking and they where saying how she had sex with the guy that i have feelings for, and he also told me himself that he had sex with her. I’ve asked her about it many times but all she does is denies it but I have proof that she has done it.
I’m not really sure what to do, do I quit being friends with her?