She is a total fucking BITCH..and he is a wimpy ASSHOLES

I been married to this guy for 7 years now and alot has been going on especially for the last 5 years.

Because of our circumstances, we dint get to see each other alot before married. I knew he had a kid before marriage but never knew its gonna be a life of living hell. When we were dating, he talked alot of bad things about his ex and how much he hated her especially not long after their divorce (note: i have nothing to do with their divorce and only knew him after he was single)

So we got married and things were fine for a while. His kid wasnt the best kid…foul mouthed and all but still we got along fine and he was smaller back then. Things started to change when we moved states and his kid came each time during school breaks spending a long duration of time till the last day of the breaks.

It was really tough. I took on the role of a mother when husband’s at work feeding, laundry, entertaining him ( we bonded together with video games, watching movies or just sitting and have a normal conversation) i even nursed him when he was sick or stayed with him through the night whenever he had a nightmare and cant go to sleep. Taking a role of a stepmom wasnt easy. You do all the job a mother does but with no likes in return or even being appreciated. To sum’s it up, i did all the dirty jobs while my husband got the role as the fun dad with all the loves and admiration from his kid even when there were days he would scolded him for his son’s shitty behaviour and he would end up crying and i cant bear to see the kid crying would tried to console him..still at the end of it all i’m being the hated stepmother.

That long breaks especially summer breaks was taking a huge toll on my emotion. He would came to my house and the minute he’s inside, the house automatically becomes his own. He would spent splaying video games day in and out, stomping on the grounds and yelling to his friends all through midnight through the bluetooth disturbing my work while my husband slept soundly all along. He would also refused to chip in helping out even lifting his damn finger rinsing he dirty dishes which by the time i woke up in the morning there would be mounting dishes in the sink. Not just playing video games till wee hours but he would happily dancing and singing loudly going into the kitchen in and out throughout the night making a mess which was in front of my bedroom. He would also have a weird shower habit which was showering at 3-4 am and taking a long shower. There were a time when i woke up in the middle of the night having had to waited for half an hour for him to get out till i couldnt hold any longer and peed in my pants (we only had one bathroom in the house). Not just that, as pissy and lazy or maybe just plain taking it out on me, he would never flushed the toilet even after i repeatedly and nicely said to him with signs posted on the bathroom telling him to flush each time he poop still he would never done that…since im the one who always woke up first in the morning, i would be greeted with bunch of faeces floating around in the toilet. When i brought it up, my husband would defended his son and said he forgot..WTF??!!! Oh, when he first came, he would run straight to my bedroom barging in without notice and there i was in a full view naked while changing (this after 15 mins beforehand i told him to knock before he needs to enter)…i would be expected to cook dinner for this shitty brat even right after less than 5 mins i walked into the house. After cooking a nice delicious meal for everybody still he would throw a pissy fit when he was told to eat the mushrooms and started to work all those tears and yeah not just that..eating on the dinner table was a grueling awkward time when i was trying to ask him questions nicely he would answered it while looking at my husband as if my husband was the one who asked all the questions and when i asked him why he would said he known my husband more (really??? when i was there day in out dealing with this kid and was there since he was 7)

For all the things i did, i dint get any support from my husband. I was blamed and finger pointing each time i brought up issues about his son. There was even times when we were arguing in the kitchen and his son would waltz in and started cheering for his dad (how fucking rude) or pull a long face and acting all needy each time my husband and i were talking saying that he was being ignored. My husband would also threw his hands up in the air when his son came plopping himself on the couch right after rolling himself all over the grass and soil outside and when i told him not to..he would slammed the door behind me and yelled at me. Oh how about that time when he used the toilet and it was overflowed even after i told him to be careful with it, he would knocked on the door at 2 am asking me to clean the dirty toilet which was laden with his piss while my husband snoring till morning. I knew i wasnt favored in fact even hated by his son when each time im around the house or working in the kitchen he would stayed in his bedroom or if he sees me in the kitchen while he came running there, he would run straight back to his room and the party started as soon as i went into my room to sleep..he would open the door and running back and forth happily singing and making weird noises all through the night like a lil rat who just had a total freedom after the big cat goes to sleep.

All through these times, i never affected the ex wife. In fact she was the one benefited from all these. Since we moved to different states, my husband offered to pay her alot more in fact much more than what is supposed to and still his son on our insurance, put his son on our family plan, paid all the plane tickets each time he comes over thoughout the years etc etc…so yeah the bitch seems fully contented with all the monetary fund she’s been gaining. While her son was a fucking nightmare when he was around..the bitch ex wife was having wonderful time banging just any kind of loser penis she could get..ranging from drug addict, man who was married and divorced 4 times, cheating old husband whose wife was sick from cancer etc etc…

Then we moved back to the home state and still things dint change. There were times, we would walked around theme parks and i would bought his son a gift and within less than an hour he claimed he lost it which in the case he was just simply threw the stuff away, he would also sit next tome me fidgeting and looking like uncomfortable as if i was a disease while his eyes were fixed to his father which was 30 steps away ordering and drinking beer (as if im gonna harm)…eventhough now he comes twice on weekends but each time he comes he would made known that the house is his with hogging the tv in the living room with his dumb games day in and out and when i spoke up my husband would defended his son or he would run into his room throwing fit like he always acting like a bratty teenage girl…at the end i gave up and started to retreat to my room all through his visits or go out and have “me” time. No more “hi” “how are you doing” or just sitting down asking and having a conversation with him. Remember by this time i have accumulated all that mounting resentment i had all through the years towards his son and his behaviour towards me and also how my husband treated me each time it involves his kid.

Not letting me rest and have a peaceful normal life, now his ex came back demanding more money. She even got more bolder now than threatening to bring it to court if my husband refused to give her the demanded amount of money. Afraid that she will get even more if court involves my husband bow to her demands and paid her more. My understanding was that child support is paid based on how much time you spend with the kid and how much income between the parents but not the case here. That bitch gets alot more and even his son comes alot more often now during the weekdays.

When i brought it up, my husband giving excuse that his son refused to go to his granma’s anymore (1. Granma’s an old school type who scold whenever she thinks he misbehave which was too much for this kid as he was raised without no disciplines and his parents let him run the show 2. granma’s drinks more now and gets drunks easily 3. ex wife wanna bang another loser cock futher up north in some sleazy motel) why??????…..my husband seems to kowtow to all these bitch demands…she was doing fine and making alot of money but still wanna squeeze us dry and my husband fooled me by saying all kinds of lies leading me to believe that it is fine with what he’s doing shoving that whatever happens doesnt affect me at all….

While we have to scrimp and save here so that bitch can enjoy all the ill gotten gains while spreading her legs 24/7. Seeing my husband attitude and his behaviour letting me believe that eventhough im the wife but it feels more and more like I’m an outsider. It’s like they all are a family while I’m just somebody whose an alien and stupid enough to believe this loved me to be married. 

I have had a lot of bad relationships experience. Men cheated and lied to my face over and over again. I realized now that my marriage is a failure and men are dead to me. I can’t control what people do even my wimpy asshole husband but all I hope he and his horrendous ugly family will get all the retribution for all the hurt and pain they inflict on me all these years

im in school right now and I do hope I be somebody once I graduate and have a good fucking job and lead a happy life on my own. I don’t need men and their shit assholes attitudes in my life. 

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