I’m doing everything possible to get his attention sexually. It’s completely stopped. He keeps saying he’s got a lot on his mind. I’ve told him on several occasions that I feel unattractive to him despite all his reassurances that’s not the case. I’m so flustered I don’t know what to do except cheat on him. I feel guilty just thinking of cheating on him because I love him so much. What do I do? How do I relieve all that’s on his mind so he will be interested in sex again? By the time we get to Phoenix next month there’s not going to be any money for groceries. It’s an 8 hour drive from here and I certainly don’t have the gas money for that. I’m going to have to pay for 2 cell phones at $120 for both. Probably a thousand for the room, or close to it. I’ve got gas for 2 SUVs…..and so on.