Now that its been a month since I left my husband I’m feeling free for once. Sometimes I get lonely and sad that it didnt work out. I just cried but I needed those tears and at the end of the day I know I did the right thing. Now that I’m honest with my friends and people close to me about how he mistreated me the first thing they say is how could anyone do u like that… You are so nice. I’ve learned the hard way that being nice doesn’t get you anywhere in this world. But I refuse to let these bad situations make me mean and bitter. I will still keep a smile on my face and be the kind person that I am. If I become a mean and bitter then I let him win and I refuse to do that.