Not only do you not have to wear torn jeans,a barely -there tank top, and a fedora,but you probably shouldn’t . The point of fashion is to indulge briefly in something fun. the point of style is to have one- weather that’s a sheath and spike heels or slouchy jeans and your husband’s T-shirt- and it should last you a lifetime. All you have to do is think you deserve to look and feel your best and spend some time figuring out how to do it. Don’t know? Find a women whose style you admire and ask for a little advice.