I am a firm believer that when a parent falls ill from disease or age there children should be there to assist them. Parents are there from the start easing aches and pains and cooling fevers. With that said I feel cheated. I want it known I love my mother very much. At 29 years old I am having to babysit my mother. The reason I feel cheated is because each and every ailment that she is currently dealing with is 100% her fault. My mother is diabetic. She sugar levels are never under control due to her eating habits. Her weight is well over 300 lbs because she does nothing but eat, sleep and go to doctor appointments. Anytime she comes to stay with my husband and myself we make sure to cook enough for our children and the adults. Within 45 minutes of dinner she is eating an entire meals again and will continue to eat large meals or snacks every few hours. I know for certain that she is using hard drugs. Which only makes her health problems worse. She calls me 9 to 10 times a day for no reason at all. If she was to just clean her life up, eat better and pay attention to her life she would be so much healthier and happy. I feel bad because my family will most likely be moving out of state and she WILL NOT come with us. She doesnt clean she doesnt bath and she needs to understand the ball is in her court. She has to make herself better.