So I’m having one of the most intimate conversations ever with my manion right now. we’re talking about the things we want in our relationship and I mentioned how maybe we may have been moving more towards lust rather than love. Now don’t get me wrong I do love my boyfriend. With all my heart I love the goofball. But it got me thinking how kids/people in general are so ready to rush into life and go experience new things without being ready for it. I was lucky. Our relationship is extremely open. We have no secrets and very accepting and tolerant of the other no matter what. So if we were moving to fast then it’s not really a problem now. But others aren’t always so lucky. Being fresh out of high school and going to college I hear and see all the time about that couple that had sex to early and are now fighting or almost broken up. *sorry for being so frank or if I made anybody feel uncomfortable with that comment*. And it makes me so sad to see bad things happen to people that I know are good. I just wish we had this internal radar that was never wrong that told us when the right time to do things would be. It would save so many people from heartaches and other such things. No matter what I will remain a firm believer that everything happens for a reason and everybody is in your life for a purpose. Whether that be somebody staying and showing you what it means to be a loyal friend or whatever the person is. Or somebody passing through your life to serve as a lesson to show you what you do or don’t deserve from somebody. Just food for thought for any restless souls out there.