Being Petty? Maybe.

I think I’m being petty. A pair of former friends got married this weekend…and didn’t invite me. I was the one who introduced them to each other! Instead, they invited several of my boring ass coworkers. So what did I do? Well, I muted everyone that posted a photo or status about the wedding on all of my social media networks. Yes, it’s petty, but I couldn’t bear seeing the ceremony that wouldn’t even be a thing if not for me. Neither of them gave me credit. Mind you, I helped put together the centerpieces for the reception and trim down the initial guests list. I guess the really bad day I had over six months ago (where I consciously decided NOT to say bad or hurtful things) was enough to get me axed.

I should mention Timothy got invited, too. He made things awkward for me by asking if I was attending and I had to tell him I was uninvited. I really need to get over this stupid crush on the worthless, most pathetic excuse for a human being that is Timothy. By the way, I happened to see a photo of him from the wedding… His outfit was atrocious! None of it matched. I would be ashamed to have photographic evidence of that train wreck. Again, I’m being petty.

I don’t think I’ll get over this as quickly as I’d like but it needs to happen. All I can do right now is pray for peace in my heart. I will still refuse to speak to any of these people outside of work but because it’ll be the best thing for my self-esteem. No longer will I have to pretend to be someone else.

One thought on “Being Petty? Maybe.”

  1. I totally understand how you feel… and if it was me id more and likely end up deleting those people not just mute them.. but thats just me.. some people will say you are petty.. but in my opinion .. i agree with you and dont see it as petty at all…

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