Thursday, Aug. 27, 2015
Today’s thought from Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation is:
Have you learned lessons only of those who admired you, and were tender with you, and stood aside for you? Have you not learned great lessons from those who braced themselves against you, and disputed the passage with you?
— Walt Whitman
Wouldn’t it be grand if we could have everything our way! We’d have people at our beck and call. We’d never have to take responsibility for ourselves, never have to struggle for anything, and never be refused any wish or want.
But how would we mature? Learning involves gains based on the effort we expend. We learned early that we couldn’t listen to a music box unless we wound it. We learned we couldn’t get good grades unless we studied. And now we’ve learned we can’t change our behaviors without working the program.
If we can’t see the results of the energy we put into things, then our motivation, determination, and confidence can’t grow. Some things will come easily, some won’t. But the things we work on now will mean the most in the end.
I am not afraid to put energy into something I really want. I need to do this for my self-esteem.
You are reading from the book:
Night Light by Amy E. Dean. © 1986, 1992 by Hazelden Foundation