Two statements but which is right ??? And why???
Statement A ::: If you look for things that I do that I may have done that upset you , and you find I have , then that is your fault you are upset , if you left it alone and did not know then you could just be happy so I’m not sorry .
Statement B ::: I only look because once I caught you out by mistake … Now the unknown tears me up inside just as much as the known … Surely if you weren’t doing things that you know upset me I would have nothing to find and I would be happy … But you we constantly doing these things and they are constantly found … So its not my fault i am upset it is yours … Should you just not be doing these things if you are committed and love me like you say you do?