When a child doesn’t have a good/right relationship with their parents they just think “well if my parents, who are supposed to love me, only want to hurt me then what is wrong with me?” A child doesn’t have an ability to think about their parents “well you’ve got a problem”. The younger the child is when these things happen to them the harder it is to overcome them because they get rooted in that mess (used to it). When you’re older and finally realize it wasn’t you, it was them you need to get determined because YOU ARE GOING TO GET OUT OF THAT PIT! You may not have had a good beginning but you CAN have an awesome finish!!!!