Today I got a bonus by getting an extra day off due to the heavy snow last night. It allowed me more time to talk with and skype with My sunshine. We are both discovering feelings for each other that while they are welcome might not be the best at this moment in time. I have been around long enough to know that in a Dominant/submissive relationship, feelings are hard to avoid. They really are nearly impossible because neither can give the other what is needed without having feelings. What needs to happen is controlling them. This is where I need to rely on my experience with my previous submissive. We loved each other but understood we would probably never be together 24/7. Things will progress how they will and we will just have to accept how it goes. We should keep an open mind but realistic goals. Never say never.