LOVE…WHAT ????

Yeah…I have said that I love you…but don’t take that too serious…cause I don’t really know what love is????  is it when you think of someone a lot???? or is it when you feel sexually attracted to someone very strongly? is it blindly obeying someone’s orders??? in order for them to accept you…or love you back the same way??? WHAT IS IT????  

    Is it perhaps?  when you have a lot in common and can speak at ease with that someone and feel like they are your best friend?   what is love???? who the heck even knows…NO ONE…that’s who…I am beginning to believe that it is not for me…even tho with all my heart…I want someone to love me…but maybe what they say is true…if you don’t know what it is…you will never find it?  

   Am I looking for perfection?  No…I don’t think so….cause I know that there is no such thing…only what we perceive to be perfection…and that isn’t anything but a delusion….because when the newness wares off…you are left with the reality of the situation…object…person…makes no difference what it is…it is all the same….   

 

    Now I have had my share of magical nights…with maybe not Mr. Right…but with Mr. Right Now…LOL…    So what does that say for true love?  

….Not much I am afraid…LOL…  

   All that crap they sing about…and write love stories about is just a big bunch or fantasies…that build but ones expectations…of something that is impossible to obtain…sorry…   

    I know I am sounding not so positive at this moment…but I do believe there is someone for everyone out there….but I also believe that some of us miss that boat…whether it is age…or just are too stupid to recongnize it when it slaps us in the puss….LOL…so what do we do?  Us unloved ones…LOL…well the best advice I can give at this point…LOL…   

    Is keep the faith…it could happen…   

     Love is what you will feel for that person in the long haul…so make sure that you know what you love in yourself…because if you don’t love yourself…then you don’t have much hope of loving someone else???? 

  Harsh but true….  

   There are a million and one ways out there…to find help loving yourself…just wade through the garbage until you find that one thing…that speaks to you…try to balance the self loathing voice in your head with a smiggin of positivity….balance is the key here….balance your positive against your negative….and most importantly….keep an open mind…LOL…it can come in the strangest of places….

3 thoughts on “LOVE…WHAT ????”

  1. scientifically love is when your have a certain amount of connections in your brain with some one else. Technically all of our brains have connections to each others and sometimes we find someone who our brain connects with more than others this is the scientific definition of love in a nut shell.

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