I’m not sure why you lied about something so little and honestly stupid but you did lie. I am not impressed at all. We are “best friends” and It really makes me question so many things. How often do you lie? I think a lot. you have told me stories before and left out things until 3 or 4 months later then you fill in the blanks. Like for instance when you went from sleeping with Neil occasionally to never again after he was married ,but then to only once after he was married. We have kinda grown apart but this isn’t new to me. I tend to fall off over time with everyone once I get to know them after a few years. Part of me thinks you stitch little lies that are close to the truth but not exact because you want it to better suite the person or situation. BUT WHY?! so annoying. I want to call you out on it but its really not worth the energy and its so stupid its not worth the fight. of course if you look at the big picture its not like you or I are actually putting any energy into this friendship as of lately anyways so I will keep it in the back of my mind but that’s it.
30s.mom.wife.blended family. His,Mine, Ours...I will call them Alpha,Bravo and Charlie. This is just a place to say what I think. I have so much on my mind at times and no idea who to talk to or how to even word things so I just need a place to dump it all.