She has it out for me, I swear.

I feel an awful lot like ranting right now… So that’s exactly what I’m going to do!

      So, my retched mother in law… has it out for me, I swear. She keeps telling me, straight to my face that I’m the reason we have no money. The thing is… We DO have money! We have enough money to pay rent, and pay our bills and put gas in our cars, and buy groceries, and STILL go out to eat here and there. We are getting along fine right now! The only thing we don’t have money for is another baby. I would LOVE to have another baby… but my fiance doesn’t feel financially ready for another one, so I am respecting his wishes, and we are waiting until he feels secure. So… Why is she blaming me?! Maybe you can tell me.. Because I really don’t know the answer to that.

I run an at home business through Etsy… Yet for some reason, she acts like I’m sitting at home doing nothing everyday. Because I definitely just sit on my ass all day long and watch television and eat. Yup! I don’t take care of the baby. I don’t give him baths or feed him, or play with him… I don’t clean the house every single day. I don’t prepare meals for my whole entire family every single day. Nope! (that was sarcasm by the way) And the best part about this is… She KNOWS good and well, that I cannot get a job! I cannot afford child care, and I don’t have a babysitter.

See, my mother in law has a boyfriend who she lives with. He does side jobs here and there… But mostly, he stays home. Well, she thinks that I can just leave my son with him whenever I have to work. HA! Right. 

  1. This man is a liar! Ex: We had a pipe leaking in our basement and we told my mother in law about it (she’s our landlord) so that she could fix it. Well, her boyfriend went in our basement and decided to tell her that the pipe wasn’t leaking at all and that we were crazy. WELL, 2 or so months later, our basement is flooded, along with our bathroom. Why? you may ask.. Because the pipe WAS leaking like we said. 
  2. He has left her before… Let me explain. So, a few months ago, my mother in laws boyfriend just up and left her. Told her that he didn’t think they were going to work, and he moved all of his stuff out of her house and into his old house. They spent about a month apart, and now they are back together.

Now, and I supposed to just trust that if something happens to my son he won’t lie about it? Or am I supposed to rely on him, and then have him leave her again and get stuck without a babysitter, forcing me to quit my job? Yeah… I didn’t think so either. 

So, can you see why I think she has it out for me? Maybe that seemed like a lot of useless information to you… But it’s just the background details.

Clearly, you can see that I cannot get a job at this time. EVEN THOUGH, I’m trying really hard to work from home through Etsy! 

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