Thursday, April 14, 2016
Today’s thought from the Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation is:
Self-esteem comes from honoring your healing journey
My life is not perfect. I make a lot of mistakes. Sometimes, I stumble and fall. I am a work in progress. And when I remember that simple fact, I am better for the experience.
It’s easy to start on a path of change and get so busy doing what we need to do that we forget to stop, breathe, and acknowledge the effort we’ve already made. We forget to honor our own healing journey.
There are times when I have to be reminded to do for myself what I do for others. The other day, a friend caught me denigrating the work I put into a project because it wasn’t done perfectly. When she asked how it was coming along, I said, “I can’t seem to get it down perfectly. It’s horrible.” I then spent ten minutes – which was as long as she could tolerate my ranting – downplaying the work I had put into the project so far. She couldn’t believe she was listening to me. “You could be one of your own clients,” she said. And how right she was. I needed to be coached at that moment in time. And after our conversation, I called my coach.
Healing is hard work. It takes great effort to stay on a path that leads to purposeful self-discovery. It takes energy – persistent energy – to be an active participant in the creation of our lives. A healing path requires having the courage to shine a light or allow a light to shine on parts of ourselves that we’d rather keep private. It means having the courage to see the work that still needs to be done. Honoring our healing journey invites us to appreciate the effort that has been made.
It’s important to heal and to honor the work done.
You are reading from the book:
52 Weeks of Esteemable Acts © 2005 by Francine Ward