A few hours ago i have watched a video from ted called ‘Martin Pistorius: How my mind came back to life–and no one knew’ and it was heartbreaking yet surprising.This video describe a man who was infected with a brain affections and lost ability to communicate. he could not express any word or feelings to others, neither making friend. He has no awareness to his surrounding which make him has a small number of EQ. However as time goes by his mind began to developed once again where his awareness has increased but no one knows that. he want to change the perception of other saw him but he was an observatory. slowly he got a therapist to help him communicate and started to developed. He got a job and friend to share his feelings. He said ‘not being able to communicate and share its inner feeling is one his darkest day and not able to create it personality’.Thankfully I still have the chance to interact and share the love from the people surrounding which could increase my emotional intelligence in any time soon. As you could see one of the major impact to our personality and behavior is how we communicate and share our feelings to other which makes us well behaved. one last thing from the video it has been sated that ‘ Communication is what makes us human’, It means that showing need and wants, telling stories and sharing feelings with other. Without this, we would not be able to live, even I myself, writing this blog means communicating to all the people who are reading my journal.