Everyone wonders or hopes for someone to give them the answers to life. Sorry to disappoint you all but the term “needle in a haystack” springs to mind! At the grand old age of 38 years (14,051 days or 38.46 years!) no-one has given me the answer.
I am going to throw it out there, asking a question that most likely won’t be right; “Describe who you think you are (honestly!)” then “Describe what your friends think of you?”. I could push this further and say ” Describe what you think people who are more acquaintances than friends REALLY think of you?” Nine times out of ten what I think and what my firnds think and furthermore the acquaintances in my life all have completely different opinions of me.
When I was 7670 days old (20.99 years) the answers would be very different 6,381 days later.
Children…have the ability to teach you true emotions, as a parent (mum-tbh the main carer by majority) every human emotion you can feel; your children test it. The emotions your children don’t test are those your partner/husband/boyfriend will make up for any shortfall! …Really did I just write that?…Again my naivety to be politically correct is apparent; what I meant to say is “have children in any relationship (married/unhappily married/separated/happily separated/divorced/happily divorced/single/happily single/widowed/happily widowed/or blatantly too young to understand the true concept of selflessness”
Now if you are used to hearing the ramblings of a female or possibly want to attempt to understand the female mind then I’m your girl (or 38.46 year old woman) …..my story/life is never dull!