I realized i hold onto my virginity because i don’t want my kid finding out i’ve been with other women besides his/her mother. I’m not ready to be a father or a lover. I don’t want my kids to suffer what i went through nor do i want another relationship that’s just like my parents. There’s still demons in my past that i have to deal with. I want to set a good example for my kids. Being a role model doesn’t start 20 years down the line, it starts now. I want them to learn the value of sex instead of conforming to society’s pressures of who they should be.