I’ve found that I really like being by myself. I’m getting to a point in my life that I can’t really be bothered by small talk and trying to keep a conversation going. I’m also really bad at social situations I’m almost always uncomfortable. I always miss read people so maybe that’s why I feel this way. I dont know maybe I’m just too used to being alone. 

5 thoughts on “Loner”

  1. I know exactly how you feel…I just want to sleep my life away…I’m 57 and the only family I have is my husband…. He works, but I have degenerative disc disease and can’t do anything and I’m exhausted all the time…as I like to say, sleep doesn’t help if it’s your soul that’s tired!!

  2. God bless your soul. Both of you. I pray that He will heal your spine in Jesus’ Name.
    For you, Loner, I don’t know that it is bad to be alone if you are content and not depressed. Seek out God and you’ll never be completely alone, but you’ll have your privacy and security too. God bless you both.

  3. I understand how you feel to be honest and I am 21 years old. I honestly think that it’s not that you are used to being alone so much, but more that you want more than just small talk, more than to know what the weather is like, more than to talk about work or what’s happening at home. Perhaps you have just yet to connect with the right person who gets where you are coming from and wants to talk openly and freely about the deep mysteries of life itself rather than wasting time talking about shoes, work, cars or food. I honestly think there are so many people out there that feel this way but perhaps we are all a little scared to pursue and chase after what it is that we truly want more of. I think that you’re really on the path to understanding and discovering what you want out of a friendship and what you don’t want which means you’re likely to be making more social progress in your own self and in your life than a lot of people are in theirs.

  4. Budalazena I’m so sorry you feel that way! I do hope things get better for you! savedbygrace thank you for the prayers! I do have depression but I’m sure that’s not what’s causing these feelings. I agree a lot with what cma95 said. I’m 25 but I have a 7 almost 8 year old and I feel like I’m just in this weird place in my life. I have an older kid so that makes me not be able to relate a lot to my friends who are just now having kids or they are very young. Yet I can’t seem to find a common ground with older people either. I also think I’ve lost myself in being a mother so that attributes to the awkwardness. I haven’t been my own person in almost 8 years. I hardly have any help with my daughter so I’m with her pretty much 24/7 when she’s not at school.

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