so my 70 year old parents should be in court today lol

thought about it last night.. my parents should be facing off this morning in court.. and all about back child support.. lol.. that my mom believes she is going to get….because a person on the other end of the court clerks offices told her she had a 16 grand judgement in her favor waiting for her to collect..

i thought about it last night.. that in a way this is my moms forum so to speak.. for closure that she never really got when their marriage abruptly ended after my dads affair was uncovered…

closure is a big deal..and very necessary in life… we hang in limbo in life without closure..

 i sent my dad a text last night and said that i wished him the best and to remain calm and hope for resolve… previously he had said he was looking forward to her making a fool of herself in court.. hopefully he doesn’t laugh at her.. i think that would send her over the edge .. and i don’t have bail money.. ( i should have texted her that fact )

last night i sent her a text at 8:46 pm and told her that my sister probably wont be there for the court proceedings because my nephew had totaled his car the night before and luckily managed to just get bruised and bumped up from the air bags..

i think that was something my mom worried about too.  my sister being there in defense for my dad…my sister is obviously close to my dad.. and that’s good  makes up for my lack there of…

my sister said through text that she really wanted to be there to voice how ridiculous this was.. but maybe this was God’s way of making her stay out of it.. and i told her also it was their issue..they have to work it out and maybe this will be the end of the feud.. ( i know  i know  wishful thinking )

so at the end of the day i will find out im sure.. cant wait  ( eye roll )

so this morning i abused the snooze button…. probably because i woke up with a sore throat.. wished i could have stayed in bed.. but who will pay the bills then.. and allow my son in law and daughter to sleep the day away in my apartment… that would kill their convenience… ( im being sarcastic)…

still wanted to kick the couch on my way out the door.. ( being truthful)

i wonder what is in their minds sometimes.. with this court stuff… with my son in laws mom having temporary custody of their seven kids….. they have no jobs currently .. no home… yet they believe that this is all going to be dismissed soon.. ?? i don’t voice an opinion anymore.. i depend on real hard facts of life.. reality to speak for itself..

don’t believe me..?   don’t have to… decisions are being handed down  from higher places…

ever look at someone and think  ok.. the eyeballs are blinking… but  theres nothing going on in the brain wave category…

my son in law and daughter have been around each other since they were 13.. they are now 32.. they didn’t date until they were 19 and had their first kid at 20… now seven kids later.. ..and their past issues that always got them in trouble was the arguments that they had with each other.. my daughter is a tough cookie.. and when shes beyond her limit she has been known to jump the fence and kick an ass or two.. usually it was my son in laws ass.. and with police called by a neighbor two or three times.. eventually childrens services got involved and that why we are where we are now.. divided..

have lessons been learned..?  absolutely… but they have to work together to move forward and i think they have definitely made improvements in those areas.. now to just focus on the lacking areas..    i have a strong sense that she may be pregnant again… but my mouth is closed… i don’t even want to think about it..

onward … breathe in …..   breathe out………………………

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