I Wish She Would Have Had An Abortion

I know that’s mean to say, but this pregnancy is killing me. Seriously, it is sucking me dry from money to spirit, and it doesn’t feel good. Misha is my youngest sister. She’s 15 and pregnant. Many have tried to blame me for her unprotected, pre-marital sex, but I know it wasn’t my fault that this happened. I was the best role model I could be. I gave her the sex talk and she dismissed me. You cannot blame me for her actions. She is in charge of her own actions. 

But anyway, let’s talk about my frustration. She has an attitude with me all of the time and I came to the realization that she never really liked me until I started doing stuff for Jeremiah (her son). Before, she couldn’t even tolerate me. Now, she befriends me when it’s convenient for her.

I don’t feel appreciated at all and no offense to her, but Jeremiah is not my mistake so why do I feel the like I’m the only one that’s caring for him? He is my nephew, but I am not obligated to do all of the stuff I’ve been doing lately. (I’ve spent $300 of my college savings to buy clothes, bottles, diapers, wipes, diaper bags, etc for him. I’ve spent about $200 on her baby shower and I’m catering the food.) I think she’s using me like everyone else does. I hate to think of my sister like this, but she is known for using people for her own benefit.

2 thoughts on “I Wish She Would Have Had An Abortion”

  1. That is a very tough position to be in. Your soon to be nephew is very fortunate to have an aunty like you helping his mom out. 15 year olds are not appreciative of a whole lot and adding pregnancy hormones to that = OUCH! You have got to be a really special, patient person for helping out as much as you do while receiving little gratiude. I hope your sister changes her tune once he is born. She may not realize how incredible you have been, but it might just dawn on her in the future.

  2. My father always says ‘you can choose your friends but you cannot choose your family.’ he was referring to my mother’s side of the family. They are all selfish greedy people.

    Sometimes it is good to cut people loose but it is not an easy decision to make.

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