Second Chance (Help)

I asked one of the guys in that group that I didnt get included in. He immedietly started feeling bad, and he brought it up to the groupchat they have aswell. He told me that it wasnt intentionally to not invite me, or include me. He had forgotten about me, and so had the rest. He immidetly addded me to the groupchat. I didnt really want to be a part of it anymore because I didnt really feel welcome anymore. He got confused and wanted all kinds of reasons why I left. I told him everything that have been said to me, and that I didnt feel welcome. He said everything he could, and basiclly explained everything. 

I dont hate on any of them. Their all really nice and fun people to be with. But like the whole situation bothers me alot. I feel like if I decide to join after all i might just end up being in the way of them and be that one person who ruins everyones mood. Since I’m a silent person, people always assume im either sad or botherd by something. I’m not. Im not sure if its a good idea for me to bring my extreme introverted side into their giant fun circle of extroverts. 

They even have this theme for their groupchat they call “Suicide squad” because they all love that movie, I do too. They all have a character there. He said he had a free spot there, the Enchantres (he said that to lighten up the mood). That character would be so good fitting for me, thought it was funny. 

Anyways, what should I do? Should I stop thinking this was and take the possibility to join their fun group? Or should I stay away, since there is a possibility im only being invited because Im asking so much. Remember. If i didnt ask, i probably wouldnt be included at all. 

3 thoughts on “Second Chance (Help)”

  1. “Anyways, what should I do? Should I stop thinking this was and take the possibility to join their fun group? Or should I stay away, since there is a possibility im only being invited because Im asking so much. Remember. If i didnt ask, i probably wouldnt be included at all.”

    Uhh this is your life Maria. The reason why people are included into groups sometimes is because they ask. There’s no shame in that. Part of the group or not part of the group, it depends on what your conscience decides for you. If you choose to join the group, then don’t think that you’re only there because you asked, think that you’re their because you’re a part of the group.

    For me, I wouldn’t join the group. I don’t like large groups like that so I’d rather stay away. But that’s me 😛

  2. I think this is an opportunity to join a “fun group” go make the best of it. However if you feel uncomfortable and can’t move forward then maybe you shouldn’t join? If you are gonna feel awkward then don’t do it. Otherwise, consider this as an opportunity to learn something. Like an adventure =)

  3. OK! Let me tell you another of my experience.
    In High School I spent a year with a group and the next year when the classes were shuffled I realized I wasn’t actually a part of the group. I suddenly realized I didn’t know anyone at all and none of them knew me.
    So next year I joined a group. I JOINED A GROUP WITHOUT INVITATION. I always liked that group, so I started to sit with them during classes. It was a group of 9 slowly slowly I became the 10th member BUT BUT I never got too close to 8 of them I became to close to only one but that was enough we , after high school ended we both got admission in the same College we became best friends.Actually we became best friends in high school but I didn’t realize until it was over.

    P.S: Rest of group broke up bad. One friend scamed another and as a result went to jail for a month then was released on bial. 2 went to different cities one went to a different country and two weren’t… well each one has a different story.

    Moral: Take the first step. You never know what is waiting for you, literally you never know!

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