Just another night

why does this have to be so STUPID ALL THE TIME. Why can’t you ever leave shit alone. You constantly poke and manipulate!! We can have 10 days of good, but that ONE day of bad does it all in. Makes me wish I left a year ago. Problem is I didn’t know the truth till it was to late. Sad. You had to manipulate me to stay. All I want to do is drink. 

5 thoughts on “Just another night”

  1. Oh yeah I definitely know people like that. They show tiny signs of disregard and toxicity that irk you in the beginning of getting to know them. They hang out with you and they’re friendly, so you go along with it and you don’t notice the signs too much.

    They constantly treat you in this appalling manner frequently and it gets to your nerves constantly, yet it’s so tiny you don’t even notice it. Then when you get to really know them, they start showing this side of them more frequently and again it annoys you, and it makes you want to leave.

    It’s never too late to go.

  2. @megawatt
    Problem is. We are now LEGALLY MARRIED. I didn’t find half of this out until we were married and purchased our first house together. I try so hard, but there is SO much more than I could ever explain.

  3. Like I said it’s never too late to go. You don’t have kids yet right?

    Obviously there will be a lot of paperwork involved with the house and the marriage, but if it’s worth it to leave then do it. One thing you have to know is that people do not change easily. If there was a consistent thing you completely despised about another person and how they behaved, that consistency most likely won’t change. However, if there’s certain qualities you really like about a person, most likely you’ll keep finding more of those qualities in them and they won’t change easily as well.

    Very good advise. She has a son so he is my stepson. I have been in his life since he was 2.5 and he has no memory of life without me. THAT is what makes it hard. She is a different person other than the manipulation part. I didn’t find out all of the major cheating factors with her ex till after the house and marriage. Ohhh its a mess 🙁

  5. If you are going to divorce, please do it before more children come along. I’m so sorry this didn’t work out for you. It’s a sad story. God bless you and help you with the problems.

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