Is love worth it? I’ve come to terms that love isn’t always enough. So at point is the cut off? How much can one person give before it kills them. I am emotionally, mentally, and physically exhausted. I have lost who I am in the process of helping someone I love find themselves. I have given up everything I thought my life would be and all for what? I thought it was the love of my life. Then I was hurt, over and over and over again. To be cheated on repetitively completely destroys your self worth. I gave it all up, to be destroyed and be a step parent to a child who I have no say so over, am restricted to a 30 mile radius of the father, and the very person who she cheated on me with more than I can count with my fingers. I have tried for years to be okay, to move on and trust again. I will never look at her the same or love her the same and that breaks my heart. I am in constant turmoil. While she has changed and I know this, the damage has been done.