How does he not understand that after a full day of being verbally attacked the last thing you want to do is make love. These are the days he shows his selfishness. If you know that you’re in a bad mood and acknowledge that you’re taking it out on me.. Why don’t you just stop. Apologize on your own and make it better. Instead you emotionally drain me, then decide you want to have sex. No one wants to fuck an Asshole.
Is being a cranky old man a choice? I think so. I think getting cranky is normal.. But being a cranky person is a choice. At some point in your day you decide not to be happy.