When someone gets so attached to two different people yet wants to be with both. Is that not having your cake and eating it too?
Here’s some back story;
my boyfriend recently came to me and told me he had been talking to someone else and wanted to bring them into our relationship. At first I thought nothing really of it, as every time we had discussed this topic in the past it was about us bringing something new to our relationship (becoming swingers – to spice up our lives a little)
But now it’s progressed into him actually liking this girl as well as myself and him trying to get us to interact. I’m not going to say I didn’t try to be a friend or at least talk but wouldn’t anyone else feel awkward… If your boy or girlfriend brought someone else in to share the bed at night?
I recently went through finding out my body likes to get pregnant but not keep it… As i just had a miscarriage for the second time.
I may be open to having someone else around but it was just yesterday I found out I had a miscarriage and the next night he brought this girl over to hangout and sleepover.
I feel rather replaced or defective to be perfectly honest.
Sorry guys this post is more of a rant/I need to get things off my chest.
Feel free to give me any advice , comment etc.