I have just finished reading the book “he’s just not that into you”. Ok it wasn’t the most exhilarating read, but the overall message the book carried was strong.
Through the course of my life I have wasted a lot of time and energy trying to figure out mixed signals from men. One minute they are all over me like a rash then they disappear then suddenly they are back. Mind games have been a constant headache and I have often been left completely confused.
If a guy is going to behave in that manner, he is not the one. If he can treat me like a disposable item then he is certainly not worthy of being in my life permanently. A man needs to show he means what he says and is reliable.
My focus in life at the moment is myself. I need to achieve my personal goals. I am not going to go out of my way to date or impress men. The only person I want to impress is myself.