I am troubled. There is a man in his eighties who has been a family friend for about 15 years. As he gets older, he is not behaving well. He wants me to write a book about my childhood and some abuses that caused me deep personality problems. God has healed all that. I have forgiven the person(s) and I am happy. He says I could write a blockbuster book. I don’t care. I am not writing such a book, bringing more darkness into the world. I want to bring light. Forgiving wasn’t easy, but it is so freeing! This man is even trying to start something with me. I am sure he has dementia, and I hate to just end the friendship, but I cannot tolerate the things he says, and how he wants to talk to me and try to be with me. I wrote him a letter spelling it out and telling him to stop it. If that ends the friendship, so be it. My husband and I have been good friends to him, and I never expected dementia to take this nasty turn. He tells me he watches porn. Y’all know I am not interested in that stuff; don’t even want to hear the word “porn” —any suggestions? He is severely lonely and I am sorry for him. A widower living alone on oxygen. God bless him. I just have to have boundaries and enforce them, even if it hurts his feelings….I think I’m right. What do you all think?