I feel lost and hopeless. I have lost my individuality because of being a people pleaser. I find myself trying to live up to the expectations of others so they like me and include be or find me worthy of their time and attention. It hurts so much to know that the more I try to be what they want the more I dont know who I am. Its hard to look in the mirror because I dont know the image before me. 

3 thoughts on “Anonymous”

  1. Buddy, I can understand you… Gather confidence in yourself. At times we are all lost, we don’t know yet who we are meant to be. But just believe in yourself, you will find the right path on your own. Breathe in the positive vibes, smile more often, know what you really want to be.. Life is a beautiful journey if you inhale optimism. :*

  2. Sometimes I just want to run away and never look back.
    Thank you though.

  3. I know how that goes…
    I’ve never felt I could be myself because of how people would perceive me and so I would try change to make people like me or want to include me. Well, it ended up being too much effort and I just stopped. I ended up losing a lot of friends and/or relatives because I suddenly became boring. I decided I wanted to spend time at home or spend time with the husband (who was the boyfriend at the time).
    It’s better to just be yourself from the start that way you don’t disappoint yourself in the process. <3 Hope all gets better!

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