Well….to you dear people who have commented on my journal about my elderly friend. I want to reassure you that W is capable of being on his own. He can drive and cook. He is just lonely, and I wanted to be a friend, but he wanted more, and got pushier and pushier. I’m giving him the credit of the doubt to say he has dementia. I think he is just obsessed with sex. He actually wanted me to come to his house alone for that purpose. I have never had to hit him to make him leave me alone, but it was about to reach that point. So his “breaking up the friendship” with me is a great blessing. Still hurts a little, but mostly I am grateful to God indeed. I hate being “hit on” because I have the most loyal, loving husband in the whole world, a very gentle, good man who goes to church with me (we bring our grandsons along). He is the best of all husbands. So W was truly NOT a friend. He thought there was nothing wrong with cheating. You can’t reason with a person like that! That’s just WRONG, WRONG, WRONG. I hope this helps the whole thing make sense, and you don’t need to worry about W being alone. He has a couple of male friends. He can’t have female friends, he hits on all of them and scares them off. Sad situation.