Scary thing about love is there’s lots of illusions. You think want a girl or guy but when you finally get him or her, you realize that’s not what you wanted. I realized i’m single because i have alot of unresolved issues with family. When it comes to relationships, i always felt the need to prove myself. I always felt the need to earn love whether it’s showing how smart i was, how loyal i am, loving, this and that. It stems from how my family was. You weren’t given love for free, unfortunately. You had to earn it by giving it and be talented to win approval which isn’t good. That’s not how relationships work. Love is given freely and unconditionally.