Our sex life has definitely improved some. We’re having sex at least once a day. I’ve been able to get his attention playing with him and blow jobs and he starts touching me and it has been leading to sex. He’s acting more attentive than he has been. Apparently as I’ve been backing off he’s been backing off in response. He’s been more loving the last few days. I’m going to wait and see what happens if and when he starts working full workweeks (if he works full workweeks, i suspect this week was to give him an excuse to stay with me) when he can afford another room to see what he does. Right now he really doesn’t have a choice because the place is full. I got the last open room they had. I guess time will tell and my suspicious brain will be proven wrong. I guess the reason I’m so suspicious is because my ex husband cheated and pretty much every man I’ve had any kind of relationship has ended badly.