My husband is upset with me. I don’t blame him. I’ve been trying to help some very poor people in our extended neighborhood, and it has led to more and more begging for money, even several times a week lately. I told them today I can’t help anymore, and I’m so sorry. They needed food and medicine and parole money, etc. Maybe I was just a pushover, and they tricked me out of a lot of money. I don’t know. I will still pray for them, more than ever, but I can’t give them more money, hubby says he will die of a stroke or heart attack if I do. He says it eats him alive every day and night. We are not wealthy people. But I was always glad to lend a helping hand. But no more. It’s over. I’m sad, but it is necessary. I have to put my husband first. Thoughts?