I found out a couple weeks ago that my dad has lung cancer. He’s never taken very good care of himself, he always had a bad diet and smoked since forever. Ever since I was a teenager he’s been in and out of the hospital for a myriad of different health problems. He lives in Ohio, where I grew up. I’ve lived in southern California now for around 20 years. I’m not sure what to do right now… I was planning on visiting for Christmas, which I have never been able to do. But now I’m wondering if I should go sooner. The doctors are deciding the treatment plan. I’m worried he might not do well with chemo, he’s already had pneumonia twice this year… what if Christmas-time is too late?