The more you know about love, the harder it is to find. Or could it be that, youth is wasted on the wrong people? The truth of the matter is, As we grow older, we become wiser. Our perception changes. Even our taste changes.
But what is it that makes divorce and remarriage such a challenge? Memories of the past, fear of making the same mistakes, living with regrets and “what if’s”? So many things that can be crippling to your future.
You have to decide if the risk is worth taking. And there is always a risk. It didn’t bother us so much at 18, after all we had a lifetime to correct course and reach happily ever after. We just didn’t realize how that shipwrecked relationship was going to effect us.
And so it goes. Fight, flight, or freeze. Our automatic defense mechanism kicks in and prevents us from finding true love and living our dreams. So while our synapse misfire and send us false signals, we miss out on the very thing we need the most. Dare to pursue your dreams.